We have all heard of Gemütlichkeit, a word the likes of which we do not have in the
English language. Well, the Germans are not the only ones who are able to get
cozy in ways we are not. The Danish treasure hygge (pronounced ‘hooga’), which means about the same thing as Gemütlichkeit.
As it turns out, the concept might be the secret to a happier life!
But what do these things mean? Both are
culturally inherent concepts that create a warm, welcoming atmosphere, and
great experiences with wonderful people. Sitting around a fire, telling stories
is hygge. Enjoying a hot tea with your best friend is Gemütlichkeit. A room
lit with candles, people sharing a dinner around a table, and on and on. It is
basically every type of situation that gives you the warm feels of contentment.
Both hygge and Gemütlichkeit are easier
manifested in the dark, cold months, when you want to cuddle up under a throw
and warm your hands on hot mug of something good. It’s around the holidays when
people come together more than usual to celebrate and enjoy each other while
being grateful for life’s treasures.
Most often, these concepts of inner wellbeing
involve food and wine, but they always involve other people to whom you
are close – or with whom you are becoming close because of all that Gemütlichkeit
and hygge. Note that in the countries with Romance languages no such term
exists. And neither does it in English, Japanese, and many cultures in Asia and
the Americas. Maybe it must be cold, maybe the lifestyle has to be more measured,
perhaps people have to feel inherently secure to be able to experience Gemütlichkeit.
So, in our hectic lives, it is good to take
some time out to enjoy our friends, our family, our animals, our homes, good
food, good drink, the candle light, the warmth (of Florida or a fire). The
spirit of inclusive, warm-hearted friendliness is bound to make you and
everyone around you feel good. Try it this holiday season!
